Wednesday, September 4, 2013

Truth and Beauty: A Friendship

Truth and Beauty by Ann Patchett is an amazing book. It is funny and thought-provoking and heartbreaking all in one. This book tells the story of Ann and her best friend Lucy Grealy. The two women went to college together, but did not truly get to know each other until they both attended a writer’s workshop together in Iowa. Since they could not afford to have their own apartments, they decided to live together in a condo. This was the moment their whole friendship began unfolding.
Lucy was diagnosed with cancer as a young girl. During her early years, she experienced several treatments, including operations and a lot of chemotherapy. Her surgeries left her with a chunk of her jaw removed from her face. Throughout her life, she received numerous ultimately unsuccessful operations to reconstruct her face. This left Lucy with very low self-esteem.
Lucy and Ann were unlikely friends. In college, Lucy was extremely popular. Ann knew all about her, but Lucy had no idea who Ann was until they began living together. The two had very different personalities. Lucy was outgoing and eccentric while Ann was more calm and down-to-earth. Ann compares their friendship to the fable of the Grasshopper and the Ant. In this story, the Grasshopper spends the summer singing while the Ant stores food for the winter. Come winter, the Grasshopper has no food and depends on the Ant to survive. Ann says that she and Lucy were like the Grasshopper and the Ant. Lucy was the whimsical one and Ann was the hardworking one. They needed each other to survive.
Following the workshop, Ann and Lucy remained friends. They were separated for a long time when Ann moved to California and Lucy moved to Aberdeen, Scotland. They would still call each other and write letters. I found the letters to be one of my favorite parts of the book. It gave me a wonderful insight into Lucy’s life, and I loved how she put her heart into the letters. The two each moved all over throughout the rest of their lives, but they never lived together again.
Both being writers, the two women applied to numerous workshops and publishers. For a long time, neither of them was accepted, but still they persevered. Finally, Ann was accepted into a workshop in Princeton, Massachusetts and Lucy was accepted into a Yaddo workshop in New York. From there, their careers took off. Lucy published her only book, Autobiography of a Face, in 1994. She also published other works, including poems and essays. Ann wrote a few novels and did some teaching. Their stories prove that one can accomplish their goals through hard work and perseverance.
Lucy was a difficult friend at times. Because of her low self-esteem, depression, and appearance, she faced a hard life. She often felt unloved and unwanted. She would try to use sex to make men love her, but it always left her heartbroken. She also had a habit of needing a lot of attention, and often turned to Ann. She would get jealous of Ann’s boyfriends, and always wanted Ann to say she loved Lucy more. Despite this, Ann was incredibly patient with her. She loved Lucy with her whole heart.
Lucy’s depression led her to become addicted to drugs. She died of an accidental heroin overdose in 2001. She thought she since she survived her cancer and all her operations, she was invincible. Ann says that her biggest mistake is that she had come to believe this too.

This whole book was captivating. It was a beautiful story of two women becoming friends and making their ways through the world. While Lucy’s death was heartbreaking, Ann and Lucy’s friendship will live on forever.

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